Affairs of the heart. They're tricky. Perilous. Delicious. To die for.
And Valentine's Day has a history that's as rich and torrid as love itself. The story
dates back to the Roman Empire, when Juno, patroness of marriage and women's well being,
was revered each February 14. The Feast of Lupercalia, honoring Lupercus, protector of
crops and livestock, began on February 15. On the eve of the feast, young women wrote
their names on slips of paper and placed them in urns; young men drew names at random, and
the pair would then be coupled during the festival. It has been said that the men pinned
the names they drew to their sleeves, which has given us the expression "to wear your
heart on your sleeve." Often, these couples would fall in love and later marry.
During the third century, there was considerable strife and political
upheaval in the Roman Empire. Claudius II (also known as Claudius the Cruel) was
emperor during this time, and he decreed that there would be no engagements and no
marriages because he believed a man's happiness at home had a direct impact on the
fierceness of the empire's army. Without a wife, Claudius reasoned, his men would have no
reason to stay home, and thus he could increase the size of his troops and their hunger
for the fight. Despite his decree, the Italian Bishop Valentine clandestinely married
young lovers. When Claudius discovered Valentine's secret nuptials, he had him clubbed to
death and beheaded on February 14, A.D. 270.
Later, in the fifth century, under the rule of Constantine and amid the
advent of Christianity, February 14 was incorporated into the Christian calendar and
named, not for the annual pagan harvest festival, but for the Bishop Saint Valentine, who
washeralded as a Christian martyr.
If you're intrigued by the origins of love and Valentine's Day, you can
find everything your heart desires on any of the web's numerous Valentine's Day sites. Visit Your
Valentine and discover the 20 Things You Didn't Know About Valentine's Day. Take the
Are You a Dream Date? Quiz, and get the lowdown on the essential love pack for that
special someone in your life. Then, see if you can guess when the first recorded Valentine
was sent. (Hint: It involves a knight, a maiden, a captivity, a battle, and an exotic
location. Of course.)
Never one to shy away from the selling power of love, Hollywood has
created its own take on Valentine's Day over at the Universal
Studios lot. Word there has it that the maiden who received the first valentine was
actually busy when it arrived. Out shopping, no less.
But there's more than just valentine lore on the web. There's also a
plethora of great sites where you can find everything from free virtual
bouquets to email valentines and animated greeting cards. If you're interested in
splashing some hearts on your home page or adding a tasteful valentine motif to your
corporate web site, you can peruse the multitude of sites that offer free clip art,
graphics, borders, and background images. Here are a few of the most comprehensive sites
available: Valentine's
Day Clip Art Open All Night has more than 50 links to sites where you can find
high-quality images ranging from the vintage to the custom-designed. You can also download
animated GIFs, clip art, and much more. Equally excellent is the Mining
Company's Guide to Web Clip Art, which has an A-to-Z list of resources for Valentine's
Day aficionados. You can find everything you need to soup up your home page or jump-start
your corporate site.
For those of you who like to send greeting cards, several great sites
offer free email greetings. The most well known is Blue Mountain
Arts' Electronic Greeting Cards, where you can find a wide selection of cards for
every occasion. Look for the special Valentine's Day section. Another site you're sure to
enjoy is Awesome
Musical Valentines. While you're in the email mood, you might consider sending a
virtual bouquet to your favorite someone.
If you're in the market for something a little more literal, the web
offers plenty of Valentine's Day treats to choose from. If your lover is a chocolate
fanatic, you might consider Soma Exquisite
Chocolate Truffles. Soma's tag line - Ever Been Ravished by Chocolate? - suggests the
company understands what it means to be obsessed with sweetness. The truffles are
exclusively handmade, and they're rolled and dipped in the finest European tradition.
Equally enticing is Godiva
Chocolatier. This year, the confectioner boasts its special Chocolates and Diamond
promotion. Purchase any specially marked Valentines Day 1999 gift box, and you could be
the lucky winner of a 7-carat diamond ring.
For those of you who seduce your loved ones with flowers, FTD has
everything you need to create the perfect moment. It's a cinch to send beautiful,
long-stemmed roses with a simple click of your mouse. If you've ever wondered about the language
of flowers, FTD offers the full details on the origin and symbolism of roses. Read
about the first cultivated roses, which appeared in Asian gardens more than 5000 years
ago. Hear the legend that roses blushed with shame as God expelled Adam and Eve from the
garden of Eden. Find out what it means when you send red, white, or yellow roses to
someone you know. And learn if it's best to send your new date lavender or light-pink
roses.
What really matters most on Valentine's Day, though, is that you
celebrate with a gift that comes from the heart. A simple card that expresses your
feelings will touch those you love more than anything else. If you're at a loss for words,
you can seek the inspiration of authors who have a certain way with self-expression. Study
Helene Cixous' The Book of Promethea and absorb the rich pleasure of a phrase such as,
"I loved you in the darkness at the center of the light."
Then again, if you ingested one too many chalky miniature hearts stamped
"Foxy" when you were six, you might be a self-proclaimed Valentine's Day cynic
by now. If so, take heart. Celebratory resistance has proven to be a good thing on
occasion: In the third century, you'd have kept your head.